“TikTokers are very much part of a younger generation, and we’re the unseen elders, and we do exist,” says Mick. When I ask them why they choose TikTok to share, well, everything from wit and wisdom to throwback thirst traps, they’re quick to admit they want to be the role models they didn’t get. Robert beams when he talks about helping people his own age embrace their LGBTQ+ identities and Bill adds support for younger LGBTQ+ folks too. In person (OK, over Zoom) they’re just as charming as they are over TikTok: Jessay tells me he adores getting hugs from fans while he’s out on the town Mick speaks with confidence, but he’s also willing to be vulnerable. After launching their account in 2020, the fearsome foursome quickly reached icon status by posting adorable (and inspiring) clips of their daily adventures.

And with that long history, there must be some great stories… right? That’s why Elite Daily sat down with some of the internet’s most experienced (and lovable) queers: Robert “Bob” Reeves, Michael “Mick” Peterson, Bill Lyons, and Jessay Martin - otherwise known as The Old Gays on TikTok.

For more than 50 years, Pride month in June has been a critical part of the LGBTQ+ community’s celebrations of self, with at least 200 official events across the United States.